Breathing_souls

We always look into the movies that a herion and and hero always struggle to be together, to impress each other, to convince the family, to fight for each other from the society. To do every possible things to make their partner happy and finally they succeed and found each other.

What is the defnitation of destination in a relationship, obviously ‘The Marriage’. We imagined to have a beautiful, cozy life full of sweet memories where we only have happiness and love and for that we prefer to get married to them to whom we love and goes to any extent to make it happen, but is marriage is the final destination or from here we are in the edge to start a unimaginable struggling phase of life.

Marriage is a start of a new life with different aspects. Here the lot more are to to face whom we don’t expect . In love life, we have to take care of two of us, their need, their happiness, their mood swings.

After marriage, we have to deal with not only with our partners but with their family, their family expectations, their mood swings , their needs. Another thing we dont bother before marrige but it has a great role: financial stability ,now we have to look after financial stability for secure future, and we have to do our savings though which we compramise with those old golden days of celebrating unocasionally just for our partner’s sake.

These are the few things which no one have shown us the mirror but it influence relationship directly or indirectly. To get away these situation , both the person needs to sit and talk what’s the problem and how to sort them out . Make it clear that you two are the your savior and no else. No one else will understand you in a more better way like your partner. So, talk with your partner politely and patiently to come over the boring married life and to glow up the spark just with little things.

A boy is always grown by a mind to be his family bread earner. From the start till became mature they are built with the maintility to work harder and to feed your family. They run whole life to acheive it and ended up their life for serving others . They are so much focus and self centred that they feel important anything beyond that, so as investing in emotions ,celebrating moments , spending quality time are also the must part of the life which also means to be as equally important as earning.

In case of girl , a girl is focused to be multi tasking in every field. She learns from her childhood to her maturity to be perfect in every way. She always finds her happoness in little things too. She can be happy in music, paintings , makeup, movies etc. She is meant to be taught to be compromised, to be happy and to be satisfied in every situation . Just only cooking is not enough ,they need to take care of home members, about their moods,look out for permission .

What the major difference is, she always try to make every day special by somehow, by dressing herself, by decorating home, by making food, . She is fond of making memories but a man always be happy after getting relax from every where.

We call wives a cry baby but I guess men were more cry babies than us. A woman complaint because she feels tomorrow could be worse or we do not have any tomorrow so just live in today , but a man thinks there will be a tomorrow where i will be completely free , on my peak ,on that day we will celebrate all the pending days.

Just think , is that possible, every 2nd day we have a new challange in front of us and we have face it in any way. Day by day we have more bigger battle to fight .

So dear men ,please understand that ,women always nagg because she know that as time goes,our time decrease, so let’s make good memories,good things to be remember so that when we grow older we do have to realise that we just invested our years only to run in the race of life ..
We have to run all along our life so just take a pause look back and fill up your blanks by investing some time to those ones too who cares for you , who are waiting for you in your homes . Just a casual quality time, spending times together ,talking together makes all the things at its right place.

Is marriage is the destination or the start of relationship.

Differece of thought between husband and wife.