Differece of thought between husband and wife.

A boy is always grown by a mind to be his  family bread earner.  From the start till  became mature they are built with the maintility to work harder and to feed your family. They run whole life to acheive it and ended up their life for serving others . They are so much focus and self centred that they feel important anything  beyond that, so as  investing in emotions ,celebrating moments , spending quality time are also the must part of the life which also means to be as equally important as earning.

In case of girl , a girl is focused to be multi tasking in every field. She learns from her childhood to her maturity to be perfect in every way.  She always finds her happoness in little things too. She can be happy in music, paintings , makeup, movies etc. She is meant to be taught to be compromised, to be happy and to be satisfied in every situation . Just only cooking is not enough ,they need to take care of home members, about their moods,look out for permission .

What the major difference is, she always try to make every day special by somehow, by dressing herself, by decorating home, by making food, . She is fond of making memories but a man always be happy after getting relax from every where.

We call wives a cry baby but I guess men were more cry babies than us. A woman complaint because she feels tomorrow could be worse or we do not have any tomorrow so just live in today , but a man thinks there will be a tomorrow where i will be completely free , on my peak ,on that day we will celebrate all the pending days.

Just think , is that possible, every 2nd day we have a new challange in front of us and we have face it in any way. Day by day we have more bigger battle to fight .

So dear men ,please understand that ,women always nagg because she know that as time goes,our time decrease, so let’s make  good memories,good things to be remember so that when we grow older we do have to realise that we just invested our years only to run in the race of life ..
We have to run all along our life so just take a pause look back and fill  up your blanks by investing some time to those ones too who cares for you , who are waiting for you in your homes . Just a casual quality time, spending times together ,talking together makes all the things at its right place.